DJ Song Request Etiquette

For Guests and DJs—Respect the Vibe, Use the System

Good request etiquette keeps the night fun for everyone. Here’s how guests can request the right way and how DJs can set clear expectations.

For Guests: How to Request the Right Way

• Use the system. If the DJ has a QR code or link, use it. Don’t shout or hand scribbled notes unless there’s no other option.
• Respect the vibe. Request songs that fit the night—genre, energy, and crowd. Off-vibe requests are more likely to get skipped.
• One or a few requests. Don’t spam the queue. One or two solid requests are better than a long list.
• Don’t demand. “Can you play…” is fine; demanding or getting upset if your song isn’t played is not. The DJ has to keep the whole room happy.

For DJs: Setting Expectations

Clear rules reduce conflict and make the night smoother. Announce or display: “Request a song via the QR/link; $X per request” (if you use paid requests). Let guests know you’ll do your best to fit requests in when they match the vibe. You don’t have to explain every reject—just don’t play it and keep the energy up.

• Use one request system (e.g. DJ Request) and point everyone to it so you’re not juggling texts, napkins, and shouts.
• Accept or reject in the app; you don’t owe a public explanation for every “no.”